tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55064863669756981582024-02-06T19:15:29.576-07:00Tryste - living a beautiful lifeA peek into my eclectic way of being. Who knows where it will lead, but it could be interesting. I try to grow everyday, so perhaps my blog will too! Explore my passions and pleasures. Chance upon my follies and whims. Skiing, gardening, sewing, cooking, hiking, costuming, thrifting, dogs, vintage, outings, parties, and on and on! How I "live a beautiful life." Also please visit my little shop at www.trystette.etsy.com!Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-31923467030570359132013-01-03T11:17:00.000-07:002013-01-03T11:17:40.677-07:00The Middle of a JourneyI keep promising to get back to blogging. I have the tools now, so there should be no excuses. Yet, I sit here wondering where to start. In my head there are days worth of thoughts and ideas, but to put them into words...<br />
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A new year, a vaguely arbitrary human construct in the vastness of the universe, symbolic nonetheless, gives many a sense of new beginning, a chance to make changes, a point in time to fashion new hopes, the start of a 365 day journey. For me it is a place I look back on the "last year" and look ahead at all the potential of the "new year." The last year has served to strip me down, break me, and leave me metaphorically naked. I guess in so many ways I could view this as a fresh start, almost like being reborn. And yet, all I really feel is lost.<br />
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At the beginning of a journey it would seem that you are not lost, usually you know where you are because you are starting out from a known place. At the end of a journey, I assume you would also know where you are, otherwise how would you know it was the end? In a life journey, the end is pretty obvious and rather certain. I guess I am not at the beginning of a journey, nor am I ready to be at the end. I find that I must be in the midst of one. In the last year, I started a new portion of my journey and I guess I must have lost the map. Both circumstantially and through conscious decision I find myself wandering in uncharted territory. It seems time to chart where I have been, learn to embrace my fear of the unknown and build the strength to forge ahead. Only then, I may have any hope of finding new and extraordinary wonders. It is time to start making my own map. I think I need to lighten my load and to do that I need to get rid of some baggage and make room for new tools and treasures. <br />
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Lightening the load. Please do not feel obligated to read further. Some of what follows may seem like whining, it is intended only as a cathartic exercise, for me. Anyone who wishes to understand why I feel lost, may find insight in what I need to purge. <br />
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I find myself constantly coming round to this internal need to reach a place of honesty about my current place and situation. I have so many thoughts on the whole thing I am not sure I can get it all out, and it is sure to be a little less than clear in some areas. I am not clear myself on some things, but am in search of understanding and this may help. <br />
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Life has been a blur for the past 3 years. Many changes, many decisions, many ups and many downs. Three years ago, we were living with my grandparents in order to save money for a house of our own. This plan was a bit less effective than originally intended due to the fact that I was laid off from my decent paying job, just shortly after hatching the idea. We looked at it as a blessing due to the fact that it would relieve some of the burden of my being without work. I puttered for far too long, dreaming up poorly completed ideas and eventually getting a fill in job as a administrative substitute with the school district. I became desperate for a place of our own, letting too many silly ideas and knee jerk opinions push me into a blind pursuit of "independence."<br />
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Long story short, I pushed us into the first place that seemed workable. We had a list of necessities and I managed to justify a great deal to make the place we now live fit. I just wanted to be me, to be an adult, to have "my own dirt." There are many pluses to our decision, there are many minuses too. <br />
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Fast forward to the honest truth. We live in a single wide mobile (I initially insisted on referring to as a "manufactured home." Pride and denial talking.) It is quite possibly the least ideal structure to live in the Colorado Mountains, at 9000 ft. We have a lovely property with loads of potential, but very little possibility of my insane ideas ever coming to fruition. (But maybe 2013's action word, believe, will lead to better opportunities.) This is not so much the tragedy I make it out to be sometimes, though comments made shortly after we got our "home" made it hard for me to feel good about my forcing us into this place. At the outset the whole thing seemed workable and freeing. <br />
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My second knee-jerk decision in retrospect seems like the beginning of the downward spiral. I decided I wanted to add a little person to our lives. There is so much "beautiful" about this decision, it makes me feel guilty to even shed light on the troubled aspects of the whole thing. But honest is honest. We made a "plan" and then it promptly went completely a different direction. Again long story short, we were more successful than initially imagined and everything went into fast forward. All this was very workable. I was going to handle budget, insurance, etc. to make sure we handled things to the best advantage. It was going to be great - a grand adventure.<br />
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Then Ivan lost his job, and with it our benefits. It is a scary place to be in the midst of a pregnancy and suddenly have no care. This led to a mad scramble, a lot of avoidance of certain "options", a lot of putting pride aside and many hard decisions. The story of the scramble alone is a somewhat interesting story in itself, but today we will leave it at that. The end result of a lot of tears, research, phone calls and interviews was that our only option was to accept the assistance of the state. I felt like the worlds eyes were on me, judging. I have heard enough cruel comments in my life about "low life creeps living off the government" to make me more than ashamed. It was a hard decision, but I justified it by putting my child ahead of my pride. I figured, we would be as undemanding as possible, and we would get back to where we were, things would sort and be fine.<br />
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Pregnancy was fun, I loved the whole experience. I got used to our situation, Ivan went back to work at his old company, still no benefits, the company was too small and profits to low to offer employee benefits. Ah well, it was a decent place to work and a necessary service to society. It would all work out, right? <br />
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I had a dream. I eagerly wrote out our birth plan, prepared everything for our natural birth experience, even fighting to find an obstetrician who would support me in my dream. Third trimester arrived, a healthy little girl in our future. It had been a great pregnancy, easy. Baby is breach. I try to cling to the hope that she will still turn, we have options. I try inversions, daily, three times daily, using my ironing board propped up to lay on, clothes pins on pressure points in my toes, flashlights shown to my bulging belly, any old wives tale will do. Bent the ironing board in my desperate attempts to cling to my dream birth. All along I prepared for a natural birth, frankly terrified of a c-section, and more so the spinal anesthesia. Last days, we try an external cephalic version (turning the baby manually from the outside), to no avail. We set the date for my "scheduled c-section." I felt ill. Babies are supposed to pick their birthdays, like magic, a miraculous call to be born that only they can hear. I couldn't even pick her due date, the doctor was off that day. Ambivalence starts to creep in. <br />
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Light in the dark. The day after my final appointment before the dreaded "scheduled c-section" I take a job at the school, figuring we set the date, this kid is not coming anytime soon. My water breaks at lunch passing period at the high school. Awkward. Then it all went quickly from there, resembling nothing in my carefully thought out birth plan. I cling to this day to the high points. My baby chose her birthday, I got to experience my water breaking, a few contractions - SHE IS BEAUTIFUL AND HEALTHY. <br />
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The darkness closes in. Despite everyone's assurances that I would be fine, no way I would have any trouble after, not to worry about postpartum depression, things did not go well. Dreams were ripped from my grasping hands. Having a c-section is like having the end of a gripping drama erased, missing, lost. I almost feel like I never had a baby. I went from pregnant to having an infant, there was no closure to the 9 months of waiting and preparing. In 15 minutes it was done. I was the least important person in the room that day, cut off from the entire experience. Never even touched my girl before she was whisked away and I was forgotten in an instant. I was okay being second fiddle to our beautiful new life, I expected it. I did not expect to be lost, alone, broken in recovery, slipping into a state of detachment and pain. <br />
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I didn't feel a lot that day. It really was mostly just blank. I didn't feel a lot in the days, weeks, months that followed. I was lost. I was alone. Promises that were made were quickly forgotten or possibly avoided. I felt avoided. I know my attitude was off, I know I was hard to be around. The loneliness served to solidify my state. I took good care of my new girl. I didn't find a lot of pleasure in the new tasks, but I did them well. I felt like I couldn't feel. Things seemed dark. I was depressed. Very few people came. I imagined in what seemed like a distant past, that people would <i>want</i> to come. They didn't. I wanted help, but was afraid to ask. Afraid to admit that I was unsure. Few offered. I slipped into a state of perpetual motion. I started to feel pain, not physical, just the ache of regret. Regret for making plans, the regret of the cruel fate, the regret of each day. I regretted not being joyful, I regretted not doing more, I regretted living in a haze of depression. I moved through the motions wanting there to be more.<br />
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For a year I went through the motions. My girl turned one. I tried to make it a good day. Something that would look good in pictures, so that someday I could look back and remember how "good" it was. Much of the first year felt like trying to make memories, trying to fabricate emotions. I cared for the little one, I loved her, but why couldn't I feel anything. Some say that when you birth a baby the "normal way" that there is a "cocktail" of hormones that is released that initiates, even kick starts the bonding process. I would believe it. I didn't feel like I had the right connection, like I missed some crucial part of the process. But I cared! I know I did. I just couldn't feel it the right way.<br />
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The darkness gets darker. In the last year, the gritty realness of life settled in. Our life slowly imploded. We were holding on by our fingernails already, trying to keep our little ship afloat until Ivan could finish his teaching degree. We would hold out, the job he had would be a great transitional job, good on a resume. We could make it, just a little over a year, we could hold on just a little longer. We tightened out belts, budgeted and budgeted some more, squeezed pennies, accepted a little assistance here or there, putting pride aside for our girl. Ivan's company self destructed in the spring. Our well pump broke, my car quit. I had quit working at the school to be a stay at home mom, one last dream to cling to. Besides, school was just about over, substituting wasn't even and option. Ivan takes a few odd jobs, sends out resumes. The dog itches. I sink deeper into the dark. More resumes sent. Dog itches. More things wear out or break. Nothing can be replaced, some too expensive to fix. More resumes, more itching. <br />
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We start tying knots in the metaphorical rope. We can hold out. Ivan will have more opportunities as the school year approaches. We hope. Our pride takes another hit. Mustering all my honesty, I relate this detail of my journey. We discover bedbugs. I am devastated. I cry. A lot. We throw our bed away. I don't care much anymore anyway. We have figured it out up to this point. We can do without a bed too. We scour the house, throw tons of things away in my paranoia. We treat the whole house and cross our fingers. <br />
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Car still dead, dog still itches, more resumes, and now no bed. Having no bed seems like a last straw where my pride is concerned. I don't want people to come over anymore, it is too embarrassing. I feel even more isolated. Dog must go to the vet he is so itchy he has licked his toes into infection and is ripping his gorgeous hair out. No answers yet, just a lot of expensive possibles. School year starts, still no job. Things seem bleak. We are having trouble making ends meet. Our grocery budget has been tight and now it is taking a hit to pay bills, glad I like beans. Life seems impossible. Pride stripped, we return to Human Services. <br />
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Small ray of light. Ivan gets a job offer. He takes it. It pays less than unemployment each month, but we pray it is going to be a good decision in the long run. I give up on being a stay at home mom. Resumes go out. No interest. I go back to the school, at least they want me and the job has flexibility. Dog gets fleas. I see a counselor. I struggle with guilt issues, depression, regret, the list goes on. Dog meets something stinky. Twice. (Poor guy.) We get assistance, I feel ashamed to use it. Think of my girl. <br />
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My girl. There <i>was</i> a wonderful thing that happened in the last year. I learned the joy of being a mother. Finally. I learned to feel again. I found me again - in Phoebe. She gives me strength, she gives me hope, she makes me smile inside and out! She is the truth in my life. She has helped me struggle through the things I need to struggle through. She inspires me to love Ivan more. She has taught me to feel again, to dream, to play, to hope, to try to believe. <br />
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Things outwardly have in many ways gotten worse. We are certainly "impoverished," holding on by a thread and the good graces of other peoples generosity, living check to check and never having enough. The truck broke in a big way. The dog has been in to the vet consistently to little improvement, I struggle with worry over my "first baby," my fuzzy buddy. Insurance is due this month, I have more money being hedged on my credit card than I have ever charged in my life. We eat by the grace of food stamps, we have medical coverage for the first time in years thanks to Medicaid, kind people have anonymously helped us over the last two months. I push guilt and shame aside every day. But Ivan and I are trying. We work one and a half jobs between us, he goes to school full time, we parent full time, we keep hope. We are working on belief. <br />
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There is light in the dark. I remind myself everyday that we are moving forward. That we have hope of better jobs and new opportunities. In the mean time, I am learning to ask for and accept help. I am dealing with issues I should have dealt with long ago, learning to be a better person. I am growing and so is Phoebe. We are all growing together. We are learning to be a better, stronger family. Ivan and I are learning to be a better couple. I am learning to be more honest. I am learning to turn hope into belief. I am finding inspiration and motivation. Discovering who my true friends are, letting some friends go and trying to seek out new friends and directions. We will make it. We have to.<br />
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So here I am a little lost. But I am finding my direction. I am embracing the truth of where I have been, lightening my load through honesty, building strength to forge ahead, and learning to use belief as a tool. I may not know what is ahead, and that is a little scary, but I am mapping a new course from here! On to a new part of my journey. <br />
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<br />Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-73937691993202317602012-05-03T12:19:00.000-06:002012-05-03T12:19:41.730-06:00Building the Recipe Box<div style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">
The first recipe I would like to share to add to your menu building collection is one of my family's standby's. Super simple and tasty too! </div>
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Put tuna, bread crumbs and seasonings in a bowl. Add egg and mix well. Heat skillet over medium to medium low heat with about 2 tablespoons of oil or butter in bottom. Use damp hands to press mix into patties and place in skillet. Cook for 4-5 minutes on each side or until they brown and crisp a bit on the outside. May take longer on lower heat, but will ensure that the egg cooks through. </div>
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<br /><u>Dill Lemon</u></div>
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Use 1/2 to 1 teaspoon of dried dill, 1/4 teaspoon lemon zest (or you could substitute lemon pepper), salt and pepper, add to fish mixture. Serve with lemon wedges.</div>
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Use paprika, salt, pepper, thyme - all to taste - add to fish mixture.</div>
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1/2 to 1 teaspoon prepared curry powder, 1/4 teaspoon ground cumin, salt, pepper, add to fish mixture. Serve with yogurt sauce. </div>
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Or you can always use the standby Old Bay! The options are endless! </div>
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They sell bread crumbs in all grocery stores, as we know. A trick I use is to keep a storage keeper in my freezer and put heals of bread or leftover bread bits in it. When I have a fair number of bread bits saved up I crumble them up and let them dry a bit, then pop them in my food processor and whiz up my own batch of bread crumbs. I then put them in their own container back in the freezer. Less waste, money saved. </div>
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Canned Salmon or any flaky leftover fish can be used to make these patties. </div>
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You can add "goodies" to the mix! (Just don't get too carried away or your patties will fall apart.)</div>
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Place over seasoned left over rice and add a frozen veggie, now it is a meal! </div>
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<br />Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-30086432334894487262012-05-03T11:39:00.001-06:002012-05-03T11:39:59.021-06:00The "Dreaded Question"Today, I will finally get to putting up the first of a series of posts that I have been intending for, well, years now. When I am on top of my week and things go as planned (a rare thing these last several months) I create a <i>Weekly Meal Menu</i>. This is one of the most useful things I have found to do, it saves time, frustration and money. I can do all of the weeks shopping in one trip and I never have to deal with the age old question of "what to make for dinner." There are so many benefits from this simple act, I really want to jump for joy when I keep up with getting it accomplished! <br />
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There are so many benefits it is really astounding! I can plan meals so that they use up the excess ingredients I purchase for a particular meal, which leads to great per serving savings. My menu can take into account the days when I need a quick meal because we have evening plans or days when it would be beneficial to put together a slow cooker meal, such as days when we are out of doors for the majority of the day and it is a joy to come in to the delicious scent of a meal that has practically prepared itself! You can even benefit nutritionally from planning your meals ahead of time! If you only buy the necessary ingredients for that weeks menu, you will have less excess in the house and you can go as far as planning on fitting certain nutritional needs into your menu. I have found this especially helpful with a toddler that gets their nutritional needs met more on a weekly scale rather than a daily one. And I have found that it is impossible to mindlessly snack when you literally have no random junk food in the house. Your shopping is more focused, and so your eating is more focused. You also tend to stick to the plan better, which means you are spending fewer meals simply grabbing something easy. So you save on money and nutrition! The benefits are really quite boggling. <br />
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You can make your weekly menu as detailed or as simple as you prefer. I like to try and plan each meal and snack as best I can, because in my busy world it is helpful to have a plan that lays it out for me, especially on the days when I can't think straight and need a piece of paper to tell me what to do next. I also tend to find myself in less of a bind when I have preplanned snacks on hand and either the schedule changes or my daughter has an off food day. I know that whatever she decides to eat that day is going to be healthy and that the plan can easily be switched up or adapted to fit our needs in a mere moment. I can make a meal earlier or later in the week easily, I have all the ingredients already on hand or I can skip a meal entirely and simply move it to the coming weeks lineup in the event we get a last minute meal invite that we just can't pass up or we have to be elsewhere in an emergency. I feel more flexible because I have a plan, rather than the chaos and frenzy of the weeks when I don't have a plan. <br />
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The coming posts will get down to the nuts and bolts of the meal plan, in that I will be sharing my own tired and true recipes that will help in meal planning. I will also add tips and ideas as they seem fitting. My hope is that less and less you will find yourself facing the dreaded question of "what to have for dinner tonight." Happy eating.<br />
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<br />Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-23244223276877442502012-01-13T12:57:00.001-07:002012-01-13T12:59:45.529-07:00Time to Wake!<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">How often we find ourselves at the end of our day and wonder how we could possibly not remember what we had for breakfast and where the twenty dollar bill we had earlier got to, how often.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Frightening really, the times we come to our destination and find ourselves musing about the drive, as we don’t remember a single turn of it.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Is it possible that we are missing characters in our own lives?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Quite possible, it seems to me.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>More importantly, how can we replace these vague moments and forgotten turns, with something more lucid and engaging, even ultimately more satisfying?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Possibly the best term I can fill the void with is “Conscious Living.” </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">Conscious Living is a way I remind myself to be a player on the stage of my own life, to live in the moment and savor more of life at every opportunity.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Simply choosing to be more aware and conscious of the life we are moving through can have benefits beyond even the awakening experience.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>As we move into a New Year, symbolically filled with potential and new opportunities, I would challenge any and all to live consciously.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Wake in the morning and resolve to pay more attention, act with more purpose, and be accountable in your own existence.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">There are so many examples of how Conscious Living can change our little worlds it is hard to know where to start!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>So many ways we will benefit from the extra thought put into an action or decision, so many ways we could potentially save time, money, even heartache.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The most simple and mundane example could be getting behind the wheel.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>There are studies that indicate that we would have vastly fewer vehicle accidents if we could eliminate even part of distracted driving.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Some interesting studies can be found at <a href="http://www.nhtsa.gov/">www.nhtsa.gov</a>, the website for the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>As individuals how easy would it be to simply choose to be more aware behind the wheel?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We could all easily practice more present moment thinking, choose to pull over to use cell phones (there actually was a time when we all survived without them), never eat behind the wheel, leave 5 minutes earlier to eliminate distraction from being late, dress before we leave our homes, and the list could go on and on.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>What would we benefit from these simple (though difficult for many) acts?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>On the somewhat insignificant end we might see better traffic flow.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Bigger possibilities might include lower car insurance premiums, even if they are only for you as the individual who improves your driving record, but maybe as big as better premiums overall!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>On the earth moving end of the spectrum, we could lose fewer loved ones as we see fewer accidents on our roadways.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>This is Conscious Living in action, and all it takes is a simple decision to be present in your own life moments.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">There are so many other ways that choosing to live consciously can find us in better places.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I hear so many times how people cannot figure out where their money goes.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I can tell them exactly where it goes. It goes into the cup of coffee they “had to have today, because today was just ‘one of those days.’”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>They <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">needed</i> it, but how quickly the moment is forgotten.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>How quickly the fact that most days are “one of those days” is also forgotten.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Then there was the snack that was picked up with the cup of coffee because breakfast was forgotten in the hurry out the door.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>After that there was the quick bite at noon, because who has time to pack a lunch these days?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>By the end of the day twenty dollars, and probably more with the convenience of credit and debit cards, has slipped though tired fingers mostly unnoticed.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>How easy it would be to save a few hard earned dollars if we just thought about each one of those transactions.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Simply waking up in the morning and pledging to think about your actions through the day could be an enlightening experience for many and if that enlightenment led to even a few small changes, perhaps it could even be a life changing experience.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Maybe more money could be found in the budget when you put a cap on the unconscious spending you do throughout the day.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">How many projects would go better if we put just a tiny bit more thought into them?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>If we simply live in the moment and think about what we are doing.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Numerous trips to the store could be avoided, messes and damage lessened, just for a bit of thought and planning.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We would probably forget fewer things as we leave our homes and we would probably lose fewer things while we were out! We would probably find that we are capable of very good decisions when we put a little thought into the equation.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Our diets might even improve if we live a bit more consciously!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We might find ourselves eating something new, rather than simply plodding along in the same rut, because we never think about what is outside of the rut.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We might ultimately eliminate that irksome moment in each day when we anguish over what to make for dinner, because we have already given it due thought!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">There is even the off chance that you might find life just that little bit more beautiful when you choose Conscious Living.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Maybe you will be aware enough of your surroundings to notice the intensely beautiful sunset on your daily commute home.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Perhaps you will actually hear the wit blossoming in your young child as you actually pull yourself out of the stupor to listen to what they have to say.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>You may even find an incredible person staring back at you when you look in the mirror with a new consciousness.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We can all be amazing individuals if we only take the time and make the effort, but we must be aware, alive and conscious to really do that!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">As you live more consciously you may find that you have more time, because you put some thought into your morning routine, were conscious of the time and your needs.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>You may find you have more money, because you saw that beautiful sunset and you didn’t need that “pick me up” to get through another day.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>At the very least you should know where that twenty dollars went!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>You may find you are more happy, because your interactions are more vivid and real and more meaningful.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>So many wonderful things are out there just waiting, but only for those aware enough to notice them.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">I challenge each person who might read this to just think about what you have read.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Just by thinking about it, you have been more conscious even for a moment.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Let consciousness become part of your daily life, start to live in a more vivid and clear world.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The best part is that Conscious Living won’t cost you anything, all it takes in the power you have inside you already.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>All it takes is a decision, a decision to bring your world into focus!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>You might be surprised at the good things you have been overlooking!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Live Consciously!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-78943273237957164862011-11-23T12:01:00.003-07:002011-11-23T14:57:08.363-07:00The Act of Being ThankfulAs I tie on my apron today, preparing pies and relishes, stuffing and bread, I find myself reflecting on the reason I am doing all of these preparations. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving. A holiday that, I think, may be becoming one of our most confused holidays of the year. We all know the story of the "First Thanksgiving." Very few people seem to know of Thanksgiving's later story and what gives the holiday the decided "flavors" it has today. The intended sentiments of the holiday are so simple, yet sadly we have moved so far from these ideals with the inundation of football and Black Friday sales. Where have we gone and what should we seek to regain in this oh so simple day?<br /><br />Pilgrims and Plymouth Rock aside, Thanksgiving is about so much more than our school days history lesson. The holiday was not even formalized until 1863 at the urging of a most vociferous woman, wife and mother, Mrs. Sarah Josepha Hale. Mrs. Hale spent her life extolling the virtues of simple domestic pursuits, championing the institution of family and fostering fierce national pride! While days of thanksgiving had been celebrated throughout the early colonies and states, Mrs. Hale envisioned a greater symbolism for a day of thanks. She quite literally campaigned for a day to bring families together, symbolically uniting our nation as a family of sorts and celebrating the simple act of being thankful. <br /><br />Whether you are spiritual or not, have a little or a lot, are young or old, man or woman, there is nothing wrong with being thankful. The religious inclinations of our forefathers should not deter <span style="font-style: italic;">any</span> person from taking a moment out of their busy day to find something good about their life and say a little thanks. It doesn't matter if you say those thanks <span style="font-style: italic;">to </span>someone, it is only important that you say them. In fact, for those of you who banter endlessly on my Facebook page about the merits and purposes of Christmas and Halloween and every other day of the year, stop to reflect on the fact that Thanksgiving is simply on the last Thursday of November. Any religious connotations attached to it were and are purely in the heart of the first celebrators and those who still lift up their thanks to God. Reflect on the intent that this should be a day to unify families of all sorts and our greater national family, to find the good in life from the smallest domestic pursuit to the incredible notions as big as faith and freedom! Take a moment to remember what Thanksgiving is <span style="font-style: italic;">not</span> about too! (Even if you are thankful for football and sales!) Take a moment to really revel in the pure simplicity that should be Thanksgiving. Maybe you will even decide to boycott the stores and their Black Friday sales that tear families away from the table and more or less eliminate a day of rest and celebration in the pursuit of profit, fueled by material greed. Perhaps instead you will choose to spend the day with your loved ones, creating memories that can never be bought or sold, silently speaking out for the things you value and believe in. <br /><br />As we sit down to dinner, I hope more than one will reflect on the innocent joy there is in sharing a meal. How few people, much less families, still share a meal? How much can we gain through this simple act? The connection over a shared meal can be indescribably more fulfilling than any electronic connection we may make throughout a day. I, personally, think love can actually be spread through homemade pumpkin pie! Revel in the satisfaction there is in making something with your own two hands to nourish people you love! The pure and simple nature of Thanksgiving should carry with it no commercial agenda, it should be as religious as you wish to make it, and it should remind us of the simplicity and joy of being with people we cherish. Your family may be your relations or it may be the family you have chosen for yourself. Your thanks may be many, or your thanks may be few. But to be thankful is a great thing. Let Thanksgiving be just that, about simple thanks and simple fellowship. Let us all give thanks and pass the pumpkin pie!Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-31228083700160138242011-07-07T16:11:00.003-06:002011-07-07T16:19:41.715-06:00Blooming in the Garden - July 7What is blooming in the garden this week? Unfortunately, nothing. Today the things growing in the garden we reduced to little green sticks. While we were in desperate need of water (things were frighteningly dry) when it came today it was in the unfortunate form of hail. During the massive hail (with thunder and lighting) storm today we, the 'children' and I, sat helplessly as things were pounded into little green mush and pitiful green sticks by the pea to nickle sized hail.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgo99SHHHZru1oViHgDImPNkbNKH6ruVx3ES4VyVwDx0zsl-L4AxkdUINM1DuDPjN0M5LeZrIrrRu4fMHElJElJTmdlo6eM1kGIOApk2X6s9OiTXBnxgWF5b-NHK1PzO_huD89pWY31Smmh/s1600/Blooming+in+the+Garden+July+7+001.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgo99SHHHZru1oViHgDImPNkbNKH6ruVx3ES4VyVwDx0zsl-L4AxkdUINM1DuDPjN0M5LeZrIrrRu4fMHElJElJTmdlo6eM1kGIOApk2X6s9OiTXBnxgWF5b-NHK1PzO_huD89pWY31Smmh/s320/Blooming+in+the+Garden+July+7+001.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626738277583788018" border="0" /></a><br />I guess we will see what recovers over the coming weeks and when in doubt there is always next season!Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-66900069376764065152011-06-22T08:35:00.005-06:002011-06-22T09:10:57.096-06:00Blooming in the Garden - June 22ndIn honor of Summer, I am introducing a new addition! During the, admittedly short, growing season, I am going to introduce my blooming friends out in the garden. With the sweet baby, the garden got off to a slow start this year, but we still managed to plant a few things! With the rather dry and cold year it looks like it will be a challenge to make much progress, so let's see how things grow!<br /><br />This week we have a rose popping open on the rose bush we earlier saved from spider mites. (At least we hope they are gone...) It is a new member of the garden family this year, gifted to us by a friend on Mother's Day at Phoebe's First Tea Party! It smells sweet and spicy, with the prettiest vibrant pink blooms!<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGoY2AoVSdbW1Y4S2lmDcJGSo7OvF4UllSHDntiMgvUobcZDvWtUBXCqCN0t6zZ8CBe-DNlIc2WHjYQbMP-QC27eaklZTjc2vxclYCuN-OwtSz1CORCnlGQS7l2b-AT2wwzOa2S7T67-EU/s1600/Garden+June+22+002.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGoY2AoVSdbW1Y4S2lmDcJGSo7OvF4UllSHDntiMgvUobcZDvWtUBXCqCN0t6zZ8CBe-DNlIc2WHjYQbMP-QC27eaklZTjc2vxclYCuN-OwtSz1CORCnlGQS7l2b-AT2wwzOa2S7T67-EU/s320/Garden+June+22+002.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5621060173804995682" border="0" /></a>We also have chive flowers on the chive plants! The chives are return friends, who were planted last season! I must say chives are so hardy that I might just grow a ton of chives, I mean they taste great on potatoes and even have pretty purple flowers!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9dIku_xWeELUXuZR41UxY0JetDVJPwXNxbY7Hzo5_RKdohYzpVfXS4R7bFsSYjzuXnC1nu3WqQb8_n9nedlnaWoEw5YmqMNCEWI11NtqtKaHFoqt7_jrTh-gMbaKbDJ763UuxJh4m1nx8/s1600/Garden+June+22+010.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9dIku_xWeELUXuZR41UxY0JetDVJPwXNxbY7Hzo5_RKdohYzpVfXS4R7bFsSYjzuXnC1nu3WqQb8_n9nedlnaWoEw5YmqMNCEWI11NtqtKaHFoqt7_jrTh-gMbaKbDJ763UuxJh4m1nx8/s320/Garden+June+22+010.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5621060584462546450" border="0" /></a>Many other things are sprouting, but we will wait for them to get going before we meet them! Now if I can just get the dog to stop eating half the things I plant we might get somewhere with this garden thing! When more things bloom, I will meet you in the garden!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEGQtARv5f6jEfVZoSZcasQjfam73HanMn3LPS6DolHfPajXksniOVXsp0iBF_mlGTJODH-L2DfHIYmgF3EwdTVhYPOvxoeIfVWuRxYXJl_B3cCms3EaDrT7kIp9gDR4z3kMSI8fjVgqYn/s1600/Garden+June+22+014.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEGQtARv5f6jEfVZoSZcasQjfam73HanMn3LPS6DolHfPajXksniOVXsp0iBF_mlGTJODH-L2DfHIYmgF3EwdTVhYPOvxoeIfVWuRxYXJl_B3cCms3EaDrT7kIp9gDR4z3kMSI8fjVgqYn/s320/Garden+June+22+014.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5621061450464154114" border="0" /></a>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-58500602874933606552010-04-14T10:02:00.007-06:002010-04-14T10:53:00.331-06:00A "Scent-sational" Idea...Sachets!<span style="font-family:courier new;">During our recent move, I discovered an item that may be small and easily overlooked, but is not only charming, it is practically an essential in a new home.</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">This little item is the sachet.</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">While they are not very common in our modern smell loaded world, sachets are wonderfully useful.</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">Unlike all the commercial scented items out there, sachets have a particular nostalgia and elegance about them. Their natural scents are not overpowering, yet effective. They are often dainty, but can easily be manned up for the gentlemen in the house. </span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">They really are a little treat!</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: courier new;"><br /></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:courier new;"><o:p> </o:p></p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKVtPTH5H4RbCfPuh7bbtU_pCaKi2tpnh4t52nFFFbBvO61nYsfPSluaCp_iWmDaJTs3M5bg1l-YYr5mKc8t6lo7cIlzLFv8IsNXrhih3D9qzrB4rgrd9jFB-l0HMA37HouXtH_l05vMIQ/s1600/Blog+-+MMMH+Sachets+006.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKVtPTH5H4RbCfPuh7bbtU_pCaKi2tpnh4t52nFFFbBvO61nYsfPSluaCp_iWmDaJTs3M5bg1l-YYr5mKc8t6lo7cIlzLFv8IsNXrhih3D9qzrB4rgrd9jFB-l0HMA37HouXtH_l05vMIQ/s320/Blog+-+MMMH+Sachets+006.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5460034225363957554" border="0" /></a><br /><p style="font-family: courier new;font-family:courier new;" class="MsoNormal">The sachet actually became useful to me prior to our move.<span style=""> </span>I was concerned that our linen items and clothing left in storage were in danger of being an attractive meal for any sort or vermin or creepy crawly.<span style=""> </span>But I had an inspiration.<span style=""> </span>Knowing that most creepy crawlies are not overly enthused about strong smells, I thought I would give our clothes a good dosing of something smelly.<span style=""> </span>Well, there are always the time tested, yet not so lovely, mothballs.<span style=""> </span>But who really wants to smell like an old mothball anyway?<span style=""> </span>I sure didn’t, but I thought lavender might do the trick and I actually love the soothing scent of lavender.<span style=""> </span>So I went to the herb shop and bought a big bulk bag of lavender buds, whipped up a few mesh bags on my sewing machine and I popped several little flower filled lovelies into my linen and wardrobe boxes.<span style=""> </span>*Note: You too can easily do this!<span style=""> </span>Just buy some bulk lavender and grab some of the little favor bags that most craft stores sell and fill them up!</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:courier new;"><br /></p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkfXEpiKJikYK96kGUk2vnxFSXJ4esxbmy87kLheDVKdGq3CrhISOUu5mm475BSJ4eyhp8B_9x4QpA3uka_iYRstl6B9i7MfD3lcRHw9fWpihE_JvriinVwZoL_KFP9j9NHfiksdfJ1bfw/s1600/Blog+-+MMMH+Sachets+005.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkfXEpiKJikYK96kGUk2vnxFSXJ4esxbmy87kLheDVKdGq3CrhISOUu5mm475BSJ4eyhp8B_9x4QpA3uka_iYRstl6B9i7MfD3lcRHw9fWpihE_JvriinVwZoL_KFP9j9NHfiksdfJ1bfw/s320/Blog+-+MMMH+Sachets+005.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5460034681036402738" border="0" /></a><p face="courier new" class="MsoNormal"><br /><span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></p> <p face="courier new" class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p face="courier new" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:courier new;">I am pleased to report no meals were served while our things sat in storage.</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">While I can concede that this may not be fool proof, at the very least my clothes and linens came out of their boxes smelling sweetly of lavender!</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">But the useful little sachet didn’t stop there!</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">I know many people would not think to mind the odors left behind by previous homeowners, but no matter how small, I wish things to smell as I please…not at anyone else pleases.</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">So I quickly stashed my little bundles of lavender buds in the closets and drawers, so that when we put our wardrobes and linens in their new homes they would smell how I wished them to smell.</span><span style="font-family:courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family:courier new;">And it is really a delight to open a drawer and find, well smell, a charming little sachet!</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p face="courier new" class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p face="courier new" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: courier new;">Sachets come in all shapes, sizes and smells.</span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family: courier new;">Some are very fancy and some are very plain.</span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family: courier new;">They all smell like something, but what can be up to you!</span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family: courier new;">As I suggested, one of the easiest ways to create your own sachets is to purchase bulk lavender at a natural foods market or herb shop and fill the small favor bags you find at most craft stores.</span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family: courier new;">Many shops and catalogs also sell sachets.</span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family: courier new;">The possibilities are practically endless. </span><o:p></o:p></p> <p face="courier new" class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;font-family:courier new;" class="MsoNormal">While many sachets are lavender filled, one can fill sachets with a wide variety of items to please different noses!<span style=""> </span>Gentlemen are not usually too thrilled to go around smelling of flowers, so for the fellows one can fill the little pockets with cedar shavings, pine needles, even sprigs of dried herbs.<span style=""> </span>In fact, the Victorians were very fond of making pine needle pillows, or sachets, during their country holidays so that they could return home with the scent of the forest.<span style=""> </span>Women who are not overly fond of lavender might try dried rose buds or petals, the leaves of scented geraniums, cloves, dried citrus peel, or even wood shavings scented with a favorite essential oil.<span style=""> </span>We must be careful, however, when using certain fillers to be careful of where we place our sachets as oils could leach onto our precious items.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">I have both plain mesh bag sachets, as well as delightful little muslin pillows dressed up with lace, ribbons and silk flowers!<span style=""> </span>They are so lovely to come across when I open up a drawer or hat box, that it always brings a smile to my face!<span style=""> </span>And I always use lavender, as it is such a soothing scent!<span style=""> </span>It is not overly strong on my clothes and does not overpower the perfume I choose for the day!<span style=""> </span>It transports me to an era past, a time for gracious living. Just one more of those things Mrs. Merl Must Have! <o:p></o:p></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal">Special Note: If you are interested in sachets to purchase, I sell the little muslin, lace and silk flower designs on my <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/Trystette">Etsy page, Trystette!</a><span style=""> </span>And there is something extra useful about my sachet design!<span style=""> </span>Please have a look and let me know what you think!<span style=""> </span>I am always pleased to receive suggestions!<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span><span style="font-size:20pt;"><span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="font-family: courier new;" class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-61662815308236349492010-03-03T08:35:00.004-07:002010-03-03T10:54:54.818-07:00The Benefit of Rituals<span style="font-family:courier new;">In our modern era we are so caught up in the idea of no rules, no boundaries, nothing is going to slow us down. It has gotten to a point where we seem to believe that if we plan or prepare or seem responsible - we are obviously boring and not having any fun. The reason I believe this to be true, you ask? I have often caught the wrath of others - because I am a planner. I have been criticized - because I am "not spontaneous." Yet, I am pretty darn happy.<br /><br />Why is this do you suppose? I think I am happy because my life tends to be pretty peaceful. I am happy because I am not in debt. I am happy because I often find the extra time to do the things I want to do. I am happy because...I know the benefit of rituals!<br /><br />Rituals really help me to improve my life...not slow me down. I know most people will want to balk at this idea. I mean surely, if I do the same things day in and day out, I will be miserable and I will get in "a rut." I have actually been led to believe from so many people I meet that if they were to do the same thing for more than one day they would be giving in, losing out, even committing some sort of crime. Where did we get this type of thinking? I am not sure, but I think culturally we have had a history of celebrating non-conformity. And I think that bucking the system can be a great thing and that rebelling can lead to important revolutions. But at some point we forgot that we should pick our battles. Instead, we adopted the idea of non-conformity so well that it has permeated pretty much every aspect of our daily living. I think it is time for a paradigm shift.<br /><br />If you have stayed with me to this point, I hope that you are willing to consider a different way of living. One, I think, could prove to be more beneficial than you might at first imagine. Think about it, when we get stressed out what do we do? Grasp at any sort of ritual we can find. Really, we do! We need our bubble bath...with the special bath bubbles, just the right scented candles, the one CD (you know the one...you always pull it out when you need to relax,) and a glass of wine. Just like always. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Hmmm</span>, funny when life gets a little shaky...we find peace in our rituals. So why do we forsake them in everyday living, I wonder?<br /><br />Let's consider embracing some rituals instead. Look at children. Children thrive on structure. Why should we be any different? Incorporating ritual into our homes gives us a sense of peace. It can be the one place we will know what to expect. It will be the one place where we can let our guard down, because there won't be innumerable unexpected "surprises." Coming home will be like finding ourselves in a warm and comfortable embrace.<br /><br />Take mornings. They are more often than not HECTIC! And why are they hectic? Because the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing. There is an entire day ahead that needs to be addressed in the seemingly few moments before we are swept away by the rushing river that is life. Maybe we should just go back to bed. But wait! Morning can be so much more. Let's just add some ritual.<br /><br />You can call them routines, rituals, or whatever you prefer. Just think about enriching your day with a little serenity! Wouldn't it be better if we started our day gently rather than with a crisis everyday? Here is where we benefit from rituals. And they can be simple. They don't have to take a lot of time. They can be easy to add in. Here are some ideas:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Start your morning the night before.</span><br /><br /></span><ul><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Prepare tomorrows breakfast - while you cook tonight's dinner. (Special Extra! *see bottom of column.) </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Pack your lunch for the coming day - during dinner clean up. </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Special Idea: Create a lunch kit - use it everyday, then there will be no guessing. *Look for a future column on this fun indulgence! </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Gather the items you will need for the coming day and put it in a designated spot (I use a specific "work bag.") (This can be a really great way to jog your memory regarding anything you said you would finish during the evening.) </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Lay out your clothes for the next day. (This really adds peace to the morning when you aren't scrambling to figure out what to wear and then hunting down all the pieces.) </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Have everyone in the family adopt these evening rituals.</span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Finally, sit down for just a few minutes (<a href="http://lifetryste.blogspot.com/2010/02/mrs-merls-must-haves.html">with your planner</a>) and review your coming day, making sure you have everything ready so you can have a peaceful morning! </span></li></ul><span style="font-family:courier new;"><br />Just imagine how smoothly the morning will seem if you have everything ready to go! You will be able to enjoy your morning rituals even more because you don't have to scurry and try to prepare a full day upon waking. What morning rituals could we adopt to have a great day, I wonder...<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Peaceful morning rituals.</span><br /><br /></span><ul><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Make the bed upon rising (eliminates the temptation to get back in and you will have a lovely bed to greet you at the end of the day.) </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Make and eat breakfast. It is the most important meal of the day, you might be surprised at how great it makes you feel!</span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Have a special something everyday at breakfast. For me it is a cup of hot, black tea in just the right cup. My special treat to start my day right. </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Get ready - this in itself should be a ritual. Seriously, if you do generally the same thing everyday, you are less likely to forget a step or something important. This alone will help you to feel more prepared to face the coming day. </span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Tidy Breakfast/Prepare dinner (take out things to thaw, make a list of things to pick up while you are out, etc.) *A weekly menu can make this incredibly simple (look for a future column!)</span></li><li><span style="font-family:courier new;">Finally, give your day one last moment of consideration, gather your lunch and goods for the day. You are ready to face the challenges ahead! </span></li></ul><span style="font-family:courier new;"><br />These are just a few ways to incorporate rituals into your everyday. Imagine not feeling rushed, not feeling unprepared. Imagine feeling "together," ready, and calm. Many of these things seem like they would take over your life, but you might be surprised by how little time they actually take, especially after you get used to your new system. If you don't believe me grab a timer and find out exactly how long it takes! (Timers are one of my favorite tools - check them out in Mrs. Merl's Must Haves!) And the results are so very rewarding. You might be surprised too at how much <span style="font-weight: bold;">more</span> time you find in your day, when you aren't wasting time catching up with life. Time to do something spontaneous even! You might find that you even have a few extra bucks in your budget. Don't believe me? Consider this. If you have time for breakfast, you might not spend those dollars on that snack when you feel like you hit the wall mid-morning. If you treat yourself to that morning treat, maybe you won't be tempted by the coffee stop on the way to work. And lunch is far cheaper packed at home than bought out! And more, if you already have dinner planned, prepped and waiting, you won't panic and spend the extra cash to grab takeout on the way home. And these are just a few of the benefits of rituals. It makes planning and being prepared seem a lot less "not fun!" Find a more beautiful life with The Benefit of Rituals! <br /><br /><br />*Look for more ideas on rituals you might want to add to your life, coming soon here! <br /> <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Special Extra!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></span>Breakfast doesn't have to be extravagant during the week. Simple eggs and toast don't take long to make and you will feel so much better having had breakfast! Other quick breakfast ideas include:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Yogurt, Granola and Fruit Parfait!</span> (Get fun glasses to layer in!) This can be entirely prepped the night before (cutting fruit, spooning layers into the cup) and the granola will digest easier after being "soaked" with the yogurt overnight! If you want crunchy yogurt - you can always just prep the fruit and then mix in a bowl in the morning!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Porridge or Oatmeal</span> Soak regular oatmeal, steel cut oats or any porridge overnight and it cooks in minutes in the morning! Add in yummy fruit preserves, honey, maple syrup, dried fruit, peanut butter, whatever you like and you have a simple and hearty breakfast! <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Oven French Toast</span> Buy a french bread, slice, layer in a greased pan, whisk up an egg mixture, pour over and refrigerate. In the morning pop in the oven while you get ready and when you are done you will have a yummy, hot breakfast just waiting to serve up! Add seasonal fruit to your pan and suddenly you have fruit french toast! It doesn't get better or easier than that!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Breakfast Burritos</span> I know these seem labor intense. But the trick is to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">pre</span>-make these! Make a big batch of breakfast burritos, wrap in tin foil, place in a plastic container and freeze! The night before you want breakfast burritos take a few out to thaw in the refrigerator. Then in the morning pop them in the oven to heat while you get ready. Dress these up with salsa, a sprinkle of fresh cilantro, whatever you like! (These even travel well - just wrap them up in a towel and put them in an insulated lunch container. Breakfast to go. But I recommend eating at the table as often as possible - you deserve it!)<br /><br />With a little imagination, a little preparation, and a good set of daily rituals breakfast can be a joy - not a bother. So sit down and have a little breakfast, you will love it and feel great! <span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span><br /></span></span>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-35540714306159268252010-02-18T07:42:00.006-07:002010-02-18T09:03:52.544-07:00Mrs. Merl's "Must-Haves"<span style="font-family:courier new;">I want to introduce a new feature to my blog. Hopefully, one that will help me to post more often and get rolling with getting more wonderful information and ideas out there for people to consider. It will be "</span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" >Mrs. Merl's Must-Haves!</span><span style="font-family:courier new;">"</span> <span style="font-family:courier new;">There are so many great things out there. Some that are obvious and some that are less obvious. Many things I feel like I can hardly live without and some that are just those luxuries that we <span style="font-style: italic;">feel</span> like we can't live without. Some things are extremely inexpensive and some maybe not so inexpensive. Some you can buy, some you might be able to make. Who knows what we "Must-Have."</span> <span style="font-family:courier new;">One of my absolute "Must-Haves" is a <span style="font-weight: bold;">planner</span>. Yeah, I know most people use their cell phones for this today. I have to say, for me, there is nothing like sitting down in the morning with a cup of tea and getting an idea of the day before me; written out by my own hand in a lovely book of real paper. I feel more calm using a planner than when I have ever used an electronic version. This year, I splurged on a planner. I figured if it was something I would use the whole year and if it was going to help me maintain my sanity it should be one I loved! I happened to purchase one from Hoffman Media, the company that publishes the ladies periodical "<a href="http://www.victoriamag.com/">Victoria</a>." Special Note: Most planners are now on SALE for HALF OFF! So it is the perfect time to pick one up and try it out!! In fact, the one I have is a great deal at half off and with free shipping...add to your <a href="http://www3.mailordercentral.com/hoffmanmedia/prodinfo.asp?number=VIK-CAL10">bliss</a>! </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: courier new;">Some of my absolute musts for planner include:</span><br /><br /><ul style="font-family: courier new;"><li>A large area to write on each day</li><li>Being able to see my week at a glance</li><li>Good paper quality</li><li>Inspiring ephemera (you can add this to a plain planner if you can't find the perfect one!)</li><li>A binding style that will last the whole year</li></ul><span style="font-family: courier new;">Just make sure you open planners up and look at them. Some of them have such poor layouts, I am not sure what they are supposed to be organizing. Check several out and really think about what you do in a day, a week, a month. What do you need to write down and remember? Do you only have big events that you plan? Do you write out plans for each day like I do? Really assess your personal needs. Then grab the one that calls to you!! Then make it your best friend and get yourself planning!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;">Special Addition!</span><br /><span style="font-family: courier new;">To really enhance my planning, I created a planner cover to protect it through the year and bought a great pen as a companion for my planner. It really adds a touch of personal expression and personalizes the whole process!</span><br /><a style="font-family: courier new;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcFLOjIo5WTbhy-jU-nca-2PqQHsPAQx4O3N9R2LIancea9KevQMD3QPFSk57Y6pAFW-BiN-0rAW8v5Fz1qFaYIUaZhCborsaO_rI2fA6tD4Tfy_DKR9gGqmlaoDsBst0TiBnRYnCE4FHC/s1600-h/Sort+057.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcFLOjIo5WTbhy-jU-nca-2PqQHsPAQx4O3N9R2LIancea9KevQMD3QPFSk57Y6pAFW-BiN-0rAW8v5Fz1qFaYIUaZhCborsaO_rI2fA6tD4Tfy_DKR9gGqmlaoDsBst0TiBnRYnCE4FHC/s320/Sort+057.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5439610199493576930" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family: courier new;">The cover has a little special pizazz!</span><br /><a style="font-family: courier new;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgDOjzfqznkaMZeDAQD_87Vw2QdyB4R-_ZwwWuiIevbhAOvTsKSRU12YU5UmfNXsEtQ_nkD44RRS1tLl34qx9Mk-XsYJwFnWrd_S_UCrALEzokBKWp6rv2RKJdnZMn6RBKMkMVEs3QeXu8/s1600-h/Sort+060.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgDOjzfqznkaMZeDAQD_87Vw2QdyB4R-_ZwwWuiIevbhAOvTsKSRU12YU5UmfNXsEtQ_nkD44RRS1tLl34qx9Mk-XsYJwFnWrd_S_UCrALEzokBKWp6rv2RKJdnZMn6RBKMkMVEs3QeXu8/s320/Sort+060.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5439612159362439410" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family: courier new;">And a place to hold my special pen!!</span><br /><a style="font-family: courier new;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSGXdVmgEz6D6v9hxX_sk9ROaBIGh7Z4irfe0TdNgHpDCiD4o8IS4qQ45GV8s_roG7ncYjhIuuviyIYXGvviJhdc_M96lSXj0hYn_su0jKZYVrZUhny2nvx87bnvErqTRtKfNaEOcw2aEa/s1600-h/Sort+064.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSGXdVmgEz6D6v9hxX_sk9ROaBIGh7Z4irfe0TdNgHpDCiD4o8IS4qQ45GV8s_roG7ncYjhIuuviyIYXGvviJhdc_M96lSXj0hYn_su0jKZYVrZUhny2nvx87bnvErqTRtKfNaEOcw2aEa/s320/Sort+064.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5439614252450044258" border="0" /></a>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-43800846301707690762010-01-13T11:20:00.002-07:002010-01-13T12:56:29.956-07:00Creating a Chore ScheduleOur lives are busy. No matter what kind of life you lead, it is busy. Because we are so busy, many things are left undone and even forgotten. And yet, eventually, these undone and forgotten things affect us. When the house becomes unmanageable and we find ourselves with even less time due to the chaos, many of us probably wish for an answer. I think a great place to start is with a <span style="font-weight: bold;">Chore Schedule</span>. <br /><br />When both my husband and I were working full time it seemed like things just got the better of us. It got to where the bathroom could have been entered in a science fair, the kitchen table had to be unearthed to even consider eating a meal there and sometimes we had to wear really random outfits since there were no clean clothes to be found. It was a bad situation in itself, but it got to the point of causing me so much stress I thought I was going to make myself ill. In came the Chore Schedule.<br /><br />Creating a Chore Schedule is a very personal project. However, with a little bit of guidance you can feel more confident in your efforts and have a better functioning chore schedule from the get go. It might take a few weeks to really lock it in, but here is where to start. <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Start</span><br />Get out a few pieces of paper. Sit down and prepare to brain storm.<br /><br />Think about what bothers you most when things get out of hand - write those down. <br />Think about the chores you hate doing the most - write those down. <br />Think about the areas you do keep up with and aren't hard - write those down.<br />Think about every chore you think needs to be done, no matter how often - write those down.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Next</span><br />Look at your list.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Pick out the items that you feel must be done every day.</span><br />For example no matter what my everyday chores include:<br /> Clearing the dining room table<br /> Doing the dishes<br /> Making the bed<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Think about your week.</span> <br />If you need, actually write out a time schedule of your typical week. Make note of days that have a little extra time and days that are really short on time.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Prioritize your list of chores. </span><br />Recopy the most important chores down through the less important chores.<br />For example I prioritize:<br /> Cleaning the Bathrooms<br /> Vacuuming the Floor<br /> Doing Laundry<br /> Cleaning the Kitchen<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Compare your list of chores to the time slots in your week.</span><br />Fit the most important chores in first making sure to put the ones you know take more time in the larger time slots. The larger time slots should also be given to the chores you hate, so you are less likely to put them off due to time. Here is an example of the chores schedule we used when we were working:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Example Schedule</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Everyday</span> - Make Bed (when you get up), Clear Table/Do Dishes (after each meal.)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Monday</span> - Clean Bathroom (including flooring)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Tuesday</span> - Vacuum and Laundry (note: put in laundry first, so it can wash while you vacuum.)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Wednesday</span> - Clean Kitchen (clean counters, sink, floor)<br /> Grocery Trip (clear out refrigerator/pantry as you put groceries away.)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Thursday</span> - Clean Living Room/Family Room (dust, clear furniture, put stuff away)<br /> You can add an extra Laundry Day in here.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Friday</span> - Odd Chores and Quick Vacuum.<br /><br />Some special notes about this Chore Schedule example:<br /><br />Notice there are <span style="font-weight: bold;">no chores on the weekend</span>. I reserve weekends for big projects (like cleaning cars) and fun time. I never ever like having to tell friends that I can't join them because I have chores to do. But you can put chores into the weekend if you absolutely cannot find time otherwise.<br /><br />Also, I like to have my laundry loads spread out. It is easier on the machine and it makes it seem like a much less daunting task if you spread it out. Also, I like to have my second laundry day include my by weekly washing items such as towels and sheets.<br /><br />Wednesday happened to be a day we had more time than others so we added in going to the grocery. And tidying your pantry and refrigerator as you go is just good use of time.<br /><br />I added an extra vacuuming so that the floor would be clean for weekend visitors. <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Option</span><br />Another way you can set up a chore schedule is to break things into rooms or areas. Instead of picking important chores, you could pick important areas. Such as prioritizing the rooms company sees and so on from there. <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Example Schedule</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Everyday</span> - Make Bed (when you get up), Clear Table/Do Dishes (after each meal.)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Monday</span> - Clean Living Room and Dining Room<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Tuesday</span> - Clean Bathrooms and Entry<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Wednesday</span> - Clean Kitchen<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Thursday</span> - Clean Bedrooms<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Friday</span> - Clean Odd Areas and Sweep Walkways.<br /><br />By the end of the week, you will have a pretty clean house.<br /><br />You could also reverse this schedule to clean the more private areas early in the week and the more public areas later - that way if you entertain on the weekend those areas are fresh and ready to go.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Try out your schedule.</span><br />I like to give my schedule a test period of at least your first week. You may find somethings need to be shuffled or prioritized differently. You may also want to make notes as to areas that you missed and need to be included and even ideas to make you chores more efficient. <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">As a last step, break down responsibilities</span> Note them on your final schedule. We don't want any confusion about who does what.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Post your schedule on your refrigerator </span>(or where you will see it everyday - even if it is on the bathroom mirror!)<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Suggestions:</span><br /><br /><ul><li>Put a sticky note up with your Chore Schedule to record odd chores to be done, new ideas, etc.</li><li>Use a simple timer to see how long each chore takes. This can help you schedule it and you may be surprised at how little time some things take.<br /></li><li>Use a timer to set an allotted amount of time for each chore and do as much in that time as you can.<br /></li><li>Remember, doing anything is better than doing nothing.</li></ul><span style="font-weight: bold;">MOST IMPORTANT</span><br /><br />DO YOUR CHORE SCHEDULE!<br /><br />You will be surprised at how quick chores get if you keep up with them. Even if you can only fit in part of your schedule do it! You will not be as behind if you get at least something done and you will feel better! <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Final Example Schedule</span><br /><br />This is the current schedule I use and it is based on a bed and breakfast lifestyle. It is for people who are really serious neat freaks or have a little more time on their hands.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Everyday</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Dining</span><br />Clear dining room table<br />Clean table, chairs and other surfaces<br />Dust and clean windows<br />Vacuum<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Common Areas (sitting room, living room, entry)</span><br />Put things out of place away<br />Dust<br />Clean windows<br />Vacuum furniture<br />Vacuum floor<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bedrooms/Bathrooms</span><br />Make or change bed<br />Put odd things away<br />Dust<br />Clean windows<br />Vacuum<br /><br />Clean shower (start with glass)<br />Put odd things away<br />Clear out trash cans<br />Wipe down sink/vanity<br />Wipe and sanitize toilet<br />Dust<br />Clean windows<br />Clean floor<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Start Laundry</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Kitchen</span><br />Clean out leftovers, tidy refrigerator, make new leftovers<br />Clean Cabinets and Stove Hood<br />Wipe down Stove/Oven<br />Clean counters<br />Do dishes (if you have a dishwasher you can put dishes in first to cycle while you work)<br />Clean sink<br />Take out trash/recyclables<br />Clean floors<br />Put clean dishes away<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Outdoors</span><br />Tidy outdoor areas<br />Sweep decks<br />Sweep walks<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Finish Laundry</span><br />Fold<br />Put Away<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Special </span><br />Clean halls/passages as you move from area to area<br /><br />You will have a perfectly clean home everyday and you can add in special chores in each day (like attics or deep cleaning areas.)<br /><br />I actually apply a modified version of this most days, as all of these things do not need to be done everyday in your personal home. And I don't have enough laundry to merit doing it everyday. <br /><br />So there you have it. A few ways to start your Chore Schedule. Be creative with your time, be flexible and try to make it the best for you. Check back for more blogs on using your time to the fullest and finding time where you didn't think there was any! <br /><br />*If you really feel you can't create a chore schedule on your own, contact me. Chore schedules are one of the services I offer through <span style="font-weight: bold;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Organizare</span></span>. I am happy to consult and for a fee I will put your very own schedule together for you! Mention this blog and I will give you a discount!Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-4633395051857751012010-01-07T11:51:00.003-07:002010-01-07T12:48:33.964-07:00Resolve to make GoalsResolutions: easily made, easily broken it seems. So many people have such good intentions as the year changes anew. Yet, so often these good intentions are quickly forgotten and so we find ourselves playing out the same scenes as we have for so many years prior. Quite a cycle we get ourselves into...<br /><br />I have never been one to make "resolutions." I am, instead, a person who lives by goals. Short term goals that support long term goals that blossom into long term achievements. I often tell people that projects and problems are like eating a hamburger, you gotta do it one bite at a time. We all can imagine what it would be like to try to eat a hamburger in one big bite. Which is probably why we choke on projects and problems. So I try very hard to look at all aspects of life with my hamburger in mind. Each project and problem - my hamburger - each small goal - a bite! Make a plan of bites (and not one out of the middle - because that doesn't work too well either) and getting chomping!<br /><br />Here is an example of a recent problem I had and how I turned it into one tasty experience. I sometimes get overwhelmed by life, living and the other people in my life. We all do. So, the house had become a nightmare of piles, problems and unfinished projects. Not to mention getting chores done. I knew I needed a plan - and I knew I couldn't get it all done in one fell swoop. My plan would happen in stages - or bites. It <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">went</span> like this:<br /><br />First, I cleaned up just the dining room table. Yep, just that.<br /><br />The catch was that it now had to stay clean. (This is of course is usually the hard part.) Everyday, it had to be cleared and wiped down after each meal. It also had to not collect any items, no piles. Each thing that showed up on the table had to be put away where it belongs. And I kept at this goal each day. <br /><br />Second, I added into the routine two "Must Do Rules."<br /><br />Everyday I make the bed. And after every meal I do the dishes. There you have the two rules and they aren't even too hard. Now I had a clear space (they help with clear minds) and I had a tidy bed and no dirty dishes. I already felt better.<br /><br />Then the progression began. I started in one room and cleaned it entirely. Putting each item out of its' place back into its' place. Dusting, clearing, vacuuming. Each day I did one room, making sure I kept the table clean, the bed made and the dishes washed. It really wasn't too taxing at all. Again, the hard part was making the goal to tidy the newly cleaned room each day. Keep it clean and clear!!! <br /><br />I progressed from room to room. Sometimes breaking rooms down into multiple sections, so I didn't feel overwhelmed. But always making the goal to keep each newly cleaned room tidy. Honestly, if you simply make the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">conscious</span> decision to not leave things out of place and to give things a regular once over it really isn't hard to keep up. Try it! <br /><br />Finally, I got through every room and when I was done...<br /><br />I had an entirely clean house. I had kept all the "done" rooms tidy and so when all was finished there were no messes left behind. And the most exciting part of it all. Now I spend just a short bit of time putting just a couple items away each day, follow my brief chore schedule (a blog on this coming soon!), and I have a clean and comfortable house with almost no effort! It is such a great feeling! Keeping on top of things takes almost no effort at all, especially compared to trying to clean the huge mess left if you don't make that little bit of effort. It is completely self-rewarding!!! Start small, work small and see yourself through to a huge <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">achievement</span>.Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-12343373639039770832009-10-19T08:50:00.001-06:002009-10-19T08:54:19.814-06:00Good News for everyone who reads my little blog...I will be able to post more often for a few months now! So stay tuned for all the things that may show up here! Happy reading everyone!Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-2177805929277744342009-09-16T08:32:00.004-06:002009-09-16T09:43:14.849-06:00First Restaurant Review<span style="font-family:courier new;">One of my great passions in life is supporting small businesses! My greatest dream in life is to be a successful small business owner myself (really, since I was not even ten years old!) I am in-tune with the start-up trials and tribulations, the fear involved, the courage one must muster, the passion needed to succeed, the deep well of energy you must have, and so on and so forth. I am charmed by each new business that I visit. I find myself trying to imagine exactly the vision of the owner. Looking for every little piece they have done so very right in their execution of that vision. Then looking for places they can improve, not because I want to find flaws but more as an exercise to hone my own business creating skills. Finally, I always try to search out some small treasure that will fit into my budget as a token of my appreciation that they took the chance to follow their dreams.<br /><br />A recent lack of budget, well actually complete non-existence really, has slowed my ability to support small business. However, on a recent weekday I was the lucky guest at a luncheon date with my mother! We visited a new little restaurant here in my home town called "<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Mangia</span>! <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Mangia</span>!" And so I got the idea to start reviewing restaurants as part of my call to support small business and expand my blog topics! Here is my first restaurant review! (What fun now I can be my own food critic!)<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Mangia</span>! <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Mangia</span>!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Who: </span>Not sure who took the chance, but I may find out in the future.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What:</span> Little Italian Place<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">When: </span>Lunch and Dinner<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Where:</span> Just off of the main drag in Woodland Park, CO. (Behind Pizza Hut.)<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">*Note:</span> In the future I will improve my information gathering skills!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Review:</span> Mom and I decided on Italian as a last minute choice at lunch one day and she suggested the new little Italian place in town. It is called "Mangia! Mangia!" So we drove down to the place and went in for a little luncheon break. We were greeted and seated right away, in a little side booth, though they are small they have several booths along the side of the restaurant and a gaggle of table in the center (as the building was originally an <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Arby's</span> it is rather difficult to change the setting inside.)<br /><br />The waitress was prompt and friendly. We only asked for water, though I overheard an odd conversation regarding one of their fountain drink offerings (which piqued my curiosity.) I wished that the waitress would have given us the information on the specials and soups, but she chose not to - perhaps because they are written on a cute little chalkboard on the wall.<br /><br />We decided on spaghetti and meatballs. This was prompted, I think by the fact that there are a number of lunch offerings, but only three that are not sandwiches (as I recall.) The meal is accompanied by a house salad and garlic bread. First, we received our salads. Which were a pleasant surprise. They were most enjoyable with mixed greens, red onion, an artichoke quarter, grape tomatoes...I need to take notes...and a very tasty vinaigrette (not too much thankfully!) Then came the entree. The entree, I believe, was a lunch portion (which makes sense.) It was pretty standard spaghetti and meatballs. Though, the sauce is chalk full of Italian Sausage slices. For me the sausage was different - but very welcome, as there was, in fact, only one, single meatball in their "spaghetti and <span style="font-style: italic;">meatballs</span>." Should have been labeled as "spaghetti and <span style="font-style: italic;">meatball</span>." The sauce had a nice home cooked and satisfying taste - very good tomato flavor. The only complaint I had was that the noodles were too wet for my pallet; I find it frustrating when my sauce is diluted by soggy noodles. The garlic bread was, well, garlic bread. Good for cleaning up left over sauce bits in your spaghetti bowl. Finally, we skipped dessert (trying to be good girls!) But I asked to see a menu to glance at the dinner offerings and desserts (sorry no <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">cannolis</span> - my favorite. But for my husband - <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">tiramisu</span>!) <br /><br />Overall, it was a satisfying experience. And it is really great to have an Italian offering in our town. I say, if you are in town and have a taste for a little Italian flavor give <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Mangia</span>! <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Mangia</span>! a try. The dinner menu looks tempting. Perhaps, I will drag my dear husband in for an evening meal here at some point. Then I will report back here! Ciao!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">My Thoughts/Suggestions: </span><br /><br />*Enjoyed cute decorations that help to cover <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Arby's</span> feel. The grapes are a good touch!<br />*Could work on increasing <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">intimacy</span> of the space - perhaps room screens could be employed.<br />*Liked the open kitchen - seems like <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">there</span> is less to hide!<br />*Needs music for <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">ambiance</span> (and to mask refrigerator noise!)<br />*Would love to see waitress slightly more professionally dressed. (Vintage would add flair and <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">ambiance</span>! *wink*)<br />*The place was clean, but I thought it could have used a slightly more <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14">thorough</span> scrubbing in some areas! But I am PICKY!<br />*Liked the rose scented soap in the bathroom!<br /> <br /><br /> </span>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-16708618985861572602009-08-24T10:01:00.001-06:002009-08-24T10:01:35.319-06:00Skiing is glorious!<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Wednesday, February 04, 2009 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/chipper.gif" /> accomplished </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_468558953" class="blogContent">The sun was shining and it was a glorious day! Everything about the day was, well, good! We always enjoy the drive up; as we are never in a hurry and we look for new and exciting things along the way. Even if there is nothing of note, the view of the mountains is more than you could ask for while driving anywhere! And of course the usual breakfast burritos were very yummy! (Tip: Make a really large batch of breakfast burritos every few weeks - wrap each individually in tin foil, then store in plastic in the freezer. When you wake up in the morning to ski, just pop a few in the oven while you get ready. Then wrap them in paper towels and such to keep warm - pop them in a bag - voila - breakfast to go! I like to pack a little salsa to put on before I munch - gladware works great for this. Oh yeah, ALWAYS remember to turn the oven off!!!) We also add to the comfort and enjoyment of the drive by filling our travel mugs with a beverage of choice (tea, cocoa, coffee it that is your style!) Then the drive is half the fun of the day!<br /><br />I have really come to enjoy the new skis Ivan bought me this season. The first day we skied them all I could think was, "These skis are not my friends, I don't really ever want to see them again." I didn't want to admit it though and kept trying. But on this last trip a new relationship was formed. I really think they pushed me to the next level in my ski ability. Now all I can say is "old school is the cool school." Next up: tight pants and a fur headband! <br /><br />We had an unexpected guest on the chairlift. Well okay, he was under the chairlift. At any rate, he brought an extra bit of fun to the day! The fellow of whom I speak happened to be a rather brave porcupine. He spent most of the day traversing from one side of the run under the lift to the other. It was fun hearing the excited exclamations when someone on the lift would discover the pointy little visitor.<br /><br />We decided to change things up a little this last trip and finally decided to ride the great "marketing ploy chair lift." Some people call it the Imperial Express. Usually, it is so exposed that those who ride it must enjoy punishment or something. Me, I am not going to ride a chair, just to be blasted with wind straight from...just to ski some crappy snow since most of the terrain it accesses is closed. The weather was conducive to riding in less pain (and all the terrain was open) so we headed up. We had scouted stuff off of peak seven previously and decided to head off to the right from the top of the lift. We dropped in from the "Whale's Tale" and down to the base of seven. It was a real rush to look back up, waaaay up, to where we started from the base! And the snow was better than expected. Adding yet another high point to the day! After eating our PB&J on a bench at the base (don't let them fool you - there is nothing actually open at the base of seven - even if they tell you there is a new base area) we headed back up to hit the t-bar and drop in on the bowl on eight from the top side. It also was better turns than expected! So a great day all around. <br /><br />There are several more weeks of skiing left - so if you want to feel the power and exhilaration of the mountains - get off your...excuses and come on up! You know we are there every weekend! I know lift tickets are expensive - but where there is a will - there is a way! Check out liftopia.com (I haven't checked out the site - sorry) - your local grocery store, etc. Discounts are out there for those willing to look! Isn't it time to have a great weekend too! </div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-80827362217045627352009-08-24T10:00:00.000-06:002009-08-24T10:01:03.166-06:00Joy of Glass Pitchers<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Wednesday, January 21, 2009 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/hungry.gif" /> thirsty </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_465433837" class="blogContent"> How often we over complicate, well everything. When everyday begins to overwhelm, I find myself seeking out the simple and pure. One of the most simple joys I have in life is a plain glass pitcher. I love to pull it out of the cabinet and fill it with cool, clear water. I slice just a few very thin rings of lemon. Rings always seem so much more pleasing and make the lemon seem so much more thoughtful. I float these upon the water so that they add a little excitement to the clarity of the glass and water. If I have a schedule for the day, I put my pitcher in the very front of the refrigerator, so that as soon as I open the door I will see my cool, clear water waiting for me. To pour a refreshing glass to sip and reflect upon the activities of the day. If, instead, it is a lovely day with no hurry, I like to set my pitcher on the empty kitchen table, with the sunlight beaming behind and place a clear glass along side. Ever ready for the moment I choose to taste the clarity held within. Live a beautiful life. </div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-21042290746491340572009-08-24T09:59:00.000-06:002009-08-24T10:00:19.838-06:00Ullr Party<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Tuesday, January 20, 2009 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/tired.gif" /> tired <br /><b>Category:</b> Parties and Nightlife </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_465197472" class="blogContent"> Thanks to everyone who attended our inaugural Ullr Party. We can't wait to have it again next year. We hope to keep evolving it over time. Eventually including a large fire and maybe burning something in effigy...who knows - we want it to be as much fun as possible. Hmmm, maybe someday we will own a hottub. <br /><br />This year the menu included homemade chili with all the fixings (even home-baked cornbread!) It had several compliments, so I think I did an acceptable job on the huge batch of chili! Each year will feature some sort of yummy one-pot meal offering, ski flicks and some sort of activity. We viewed Warren Miller's "Cold Fusion" and Greg Stump's "The Blizzard of AAHHH's." Oh yeah, and some select portions of "Hot Dog - The Movie" - though we missed the booby scenes (a favorite of the fellas.) Maybe next year? A few rounds of pool were had - next year you better bring you pool skills - you have been challenged! We even got in just a little ski tuning (Ivan loves to mess with skis - so get your bribes ready for next season!)<br /><br />We would ALWAYS like to have a toast to snow and winter. This year it was anything you wanted but the brave ones partook of the Ullr (it is an interesting libation...) Someday, we would like to provide beverages ourselves - but thanks to everyone for contributing their own efforts this year! (Ooooh and y'all should have tasted the delectable dessert that one of our esteemed guests made and brought to tempt everyone!) So keep alert for next years party - 'cause only people who are NOT hosers, posers or whimps get invited! So if you weren't there this year...you missed out!!! (Those who come up and ski with us might very well end up on the "preferred list"...hmmm.) </div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-16139673772068819592009-08-24T09:57:00.000-06:002009-08-24T09:58:56.608-06:00Finding Inspiration.<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Thursday, December 18, 2008 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/anxious.gif" /> hopeful </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_457309983" class="blogContent">Some days it is hard to find the inspiration. Some days it is hard to feel like there is a purpose. Some days just feel like they "aren't yours." Why do we have these kind of days? Why do we feel like we are so insignificant? Why indeed.<br /><br />When I feel this way - I really wish I didn't. But I have found numerous ways to change my mood or at least get to the next day without having to resort to the pills so many people are fond of these days. I think one of the keys is to simplify. Let yourself have a day where you stick just the necessities. I am not saying don't get anything done, but don't add extra into the mix. Maybe even take some time to literally gather your priorities.<br /><br />Make a hot beverage of your choice (I don't do coffee - but that it because it can add to the agitation instead of help it - but to each his own) and get a paper and pen (maybe even your favorite one.) Then sit down in a place that is inviting, comfortable (but functional - armchairs are not conducive to writing) and free of clutter (even if you have to just chuck it somewhere out of sight.) I try to keep places ready for just this purpose (even if it is just one place that you issue verbal threats to people who clutter it up.) This area alone can be therapeutic in its own right. Then take a moment, breath deeply and let go. <br /><br />After a few moments of thinking of absolutely nothing in particular, start writing. Everyone gathers their thoughts differently - just start. Think of the one most important thing in your life - don't add to this thought - just the one most important thing. Write it down. Think of the top things (no more that five) you literally cannot survive without. I am not talking about cell phones or cable TV. I mean really survive. I mean food, water, shelter, your husband, your children. What if society as we know it collapsed tomorrow? What do you need? Write these and only these. Now sit back and think. In your day what do you absolutely have to do to obtain these. Just the very bare basics of what you need to do. NO DETAILS. Just "obtain money," "get food," etc. Very basic.<br /><br />Then maybe you should stick to just these things for at least the day, maybe even a week or longer. Take some time to "just get by." Say no to invitations. Say no to the volunteer needs at your kids school. Say no to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">yourself</span> when you think "I can get that done too." Just say no to the "extras." Live simply. But do the things on your list well. They are just basic, so you can achieve them without a lot of effort. Just let go of the extras. Just let go. <br /><br />It is usually the "extra" in life that gets us down. I like to be busy and do a lot of things and that is not bad, but sometimes it is too much. It is energizing to pare away the extra once in a while and just focus on the basics and doing them well. It still get stuff done. I still have a sense of accomplishment. I still have purpose. But - <span style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline;">I can handle it.</span> It is like starting over without starting from scratch. It is a way of getting "a break" without the "break down." It is like a breath of fresh air. It is good.<br /><br />Live simply. Live well. </div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-24217986448297757292009-08-24T09:55:00.001-06:002009-08-24T10:06:20.119-06:00Woodland has a Christmas Parade!<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Thursday, December 11, 2008 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/awake.gif" /> awake </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_455583634" class="blogContent"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Well, okay. In reality they have a Christmas Parade every year. But on the whole, they barely resemble what most of us would term a "parade." Usually, what can be said about Woodland Park parades is that, well, they are...um...cold. Yep. Cold.<br /><br />This year was an exception though. Well, okay. It was still cold. BUT! It was a really good parade. I would like to extend my hearty congratulations to the organizers for actually putting on a spectacle that was entertaining and had content!!! There were really floats!!! It was really great to see members of our community <span style="font-weight: bold;">do something </span>for a change! I was also knocked back when apparently the Ute Pass Historical Society supposedly entered. (I still think it was a hallucination - or I can't read or something. I have never met a bigger bunch of dead beats in my life. And I can say that - I was a member in days past. One of the few with any life in me at all.) There were really real floats. It was amazing. I really would like to pat the little kids who were soooo enthusiastic on the back - they really made me chuckle! "AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR TOO!" Too cute! I want to say to that I appreciate the people who - dressed up - the costumes you put the time into (or even rented - but put on) really added color and life to the whole thing! Please, please don't get discouraged - people really do like to see costumes!!! Let's see more of them!! Let's see new ones!! Let's get creative!!<br /><br />I enjoyed the heck out of it. And I hope that next year there will be a repeat performance. (If anyone knows who coordinated the parade - please let me know. I would like to send a letter to them, letting them know how good a job they did. But don't burn "old tires" next year. k?) It would be nice to see this town get up and get in gear. Have something of value in this community! Today a good parade - tomorrow an "un-lame" Old Fashioned Fourth! So hopefully next year will be as good. And if you are looking to see a parade and you want to stand next to one of the most enthusiastic parade goers of all time - come on up! I might even pack a thermose of cocoa and some cookies!! AND I might even share if you have been a good boy or girl! </span></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-12162961253281925032009-08-24T09:52:00.001-06:002009-08-24T09:55:00.442-06:00Race Review<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Tuesday, December 09, 2008 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/artistic.gif" /> animated </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_455078251" class="blogContent">First let me say - it was a blast!! What a lot of fun! There were so many good points to the day. So many people to watch, so many great athletes, beautiful setting, perfect weather...I could go on and on!!<br /><br />Here is the run down:<br /><br />Breakfast burritos were super yummy (special thanks to my chef.)<br />Parking was free.<br />Shuttle was free.<br />Granola bars were free.<br />The event was free.<br />The sun was warm.<br />The snow was cold.<br />The turkey sandwiches were tasty.<br />The racers were awesome.<br />The view was perfect. <br />The people were entertaining.<br />More granola bars were free.<br />Beaver Creek base area was worth it.<br />Yeah - it was all good! <br /><br />Okay, seriously. The whole thing really was a lot like the movies! And the spectacular finish was right on par! The last race was a real pulse booster! It came down to the US with one last chance to steal the day and walk away with first place. Ted Ligety came out of the gates like his bum was afire! He flew down the course like a jet preparing to break the sound barrier. The crowd went wild (as they say.) He blazed across the finish line...alas one-one hundredth of a second slow. It was so exciting though that nobody minded that the Austrians went home with first place. And besides the Austrian cheering section (who just happened to be right behind us) was so excited you couldn't help but be happy for anyone of Austrian descent that day! They even sing - just like in the movies when they are happy. Americans riot - other people sing and dance when there team wins. <br /><br />I didn't get to throw my granola bar at Bode (he was just a little too far away), but here's hoping that if he gets to represent the US at Vancouver that maybe he takes it seriously this time. He has a rare ability and if given the chance I hope he proves he can perform (as he has in so many other venues.) I loved the oompa band and being on the television as a spectator. I loved the diverse and entertaining crowd. I wish we had packed the thermose - next time for sure. I loved that we had skied the race course the year before - it really gives you a perspective on what the racers are facing and makes you almost feel like you are a real part of the whole experience. <br /><br />I can't tell you how charged I am to get back up next weekend to make some turns. And how cool it is that Ivan ordered me race skis this season. (Though I know I won't be arcing them like Bode.) Next time there is a race I will be even more excited to go and be a part of the whole experience! <br /> <br />If you are looking for a fun way to spend a day or even a whole weekend, I can definately recommend a ski race (though World Cups don't happen every weekend.) There are still other races to see, "up and comings" to cheer on and crowds to watch! I would like to emphasize how much free there was going on. If you are poor like us - remember there are still things that don't cost a lot - but are really a great way to spend a day. And with a little forethought...you can cut the cost even more. The only cash that we spent was for petrol! So pretty much all you need to do is make the decision to go! See you at the races! <br /></div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-28291516421672607242009-08-24T09:49:00.000-06:002009-08-24T09:50:33.694-06:00Holidays...<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Tuesday, December 02, 2008 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/contemplative.gif" /> contemplative </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_453423785" class="blogContent"><span style="font-size:7;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:85%;">As the holidays are upon us, I would like to send everyone warm greetings. I would also like to admonish everyone to remember why we celebrate this time of year. I don't care what religion you are or are not, what country you are from or whether you are rich or poor. This is a season of fellowship, friendship and family. It is most poignant this year, for me, as this year I am very monetarily poor. But I don't feel poor. In fact, I feel more seasonally inspired than other years. Perhaps this is because I have nothing to focus on but the friendship and family - this year all I can give is fellowship.<br /><br />This year it will not be about the presents. This year I will focus on the friends I can keep in touch with, the family I can spend a moment with - the time I can share. Isn't that really the best gift we can give? I will go out each day and greet strangers with a smile and a kind word. I will stand in holidays lines at the post office and grocery with patience. I will send greetings to far away friends with sincerity. I will try to visit those who cannot come and visit me. I will find the time to sit down and listen to my family share their joys and sorrows. I will give what I have to give. I will give my time, myself. And it just might be the best Christmas yet. </span></span></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-70412569974005166152009-08-24T09:48:00.000-06:002009-08-24T09:49:07.237-06:00First Snow<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Wednesday, October 22, 2008 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/artistic.gif" /> creative <br /><b>Category:</b> Life </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_442948237" class="blogContent"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">Last night we were all surprised by the snow that fell while we weren't looking! This morning we woke up to a bit more than initially expected! This was our first snow.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">Most people wake up to snow and the grumbling starts. "Gotta find those darn snow boots" and "where's that winter coat..." Then there is the inevitable snow sweeping or ice scrapping. Grumble, grumble. To top it all off, this time of year it will simply cause mud by mid-day and then where are we at? Grumble.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">But, just for today stop. Just for today take a moment to look at the pristine white canvas, look at the fresh and crisp landscape. Gaze at the leaves, still yellow on the trees, warming small patches in the view out your window. For a moment clear your mind, as clear as the blanket of snow before you. As you step out the door breath in the cold, crisp air - like nothing you experience any other time of year. Let the chill awaken your senses and start the day off on a clear and crisp note. Hold onto this feeling and make a space for it in your sensual memory.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">Even though, perhaps, you are not a skier waiting breathlessly for every flake to fall or a youngster hoping for a chance to build snowmen and throw snowballs, you can hold onto this feeling and enjoy the snow just a little more when you wake up to that peaceful blanket of white on some crisp morning in the winters ahead. </span></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-84103895204489035062009-08-24T09:47:00.001-06:002009-08-24T09:47:56.627-06:00Farmer’s Market<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Friday, September 26, 2008 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"> <br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/happy.gif" /> warm <br /><b>Category:</b> Life </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_436189018" class="blogContent"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;"><span style="font-size:100%;">One of the things I love about summer is the Farmer's Market. When I was working I would get a little down every Friday, because I would drive past all of the people setting up for the day and I knew some lucky people would get to go and purchase fresh produce and homemade goods while I sat in an office all day. Farmer's Market is so special to me because it is a throwback to a more simple time. It is a chance to slow down and feel like you are actually a part of a community.<br /><br />Today is the last Farmer's Market of the season. I have already grabbed my basket and put on my favorite wool sweater so that my mother and I can walk to market one last time! For me it is part of living a "beautiful life." I always carry a basket because it feels nostalgic and it makes me smile. (Plus, it is good for the environment - no plastic bags!) It gives me a chance to live for a moment in another time and another place. I can imagine I live in a quiet village with people who live harmoniously and joyfully. <br /><br />After the Farmer's Market today we will celebrate the harvest for a few more weeks and then it will be time to celebrate in other ways, for other seasons. There will be so many joys to keep me occupied. I won't be sad that Farmer's Market is over for the season, I will already have a little part of me looking forward to when the weather begins to warm and the days become longer and the Farmer's Market comes to life again. <br /><br />So for today, try finding a little way to slow down for a moment. Enjoy the fall colors, breath in the crisp air, cozy up in your favorite sweater, or maybe walk to the Farmer's Market one last time this year. </span></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-23211189456512958082009-08-24T09:39:00.000-06:002009-08-24T09:46:00.999-06:00Living a Beautiful Life<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Thursday, September 25, 2008 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <div class="blogSubject"><br />Current mood: <img src="http://x.myspacecdn.com/images/blog/moods/iBrads/happy.gif" /> cheerful <br /><b>Category:</b> Life </div> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_435925894" class="blogContent"><span style="font-size:7;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Everyday of our lives we are bombarded with negativity. This makes me sad and disappointed. Believe me, I know that everyday is not wine and roses and that sometimes we have to let our opinions be known (lest we be trod to death by the ill-mannered, less than compassionate fools around us.) Yeah, I get the trials of life - they are there. Yet, I think that negativity is a suffocating cycle that many of us are stuck in. It self perpetuates, because being negative seems to be easier. Eventually, everything is consumed by that cloud of darkness and everything we see, feel or encounter is shadowed with that darkness. Life sucks (to use the vernacular!) Wait...life doesn't really suck or at least it doesn't have to. But we have to want to be different, to have a higher standard for ourselves. I have made a promise to bring light into my life and hopefully into the lives of others. I hope to perpetuate a better cycle - a positive cycle. <br /><br />I like to think of each day as an opportunity. A chance to live what I like to call a "beautiful life." I want to take each day as a chance to do something that makes my life and the lives of those around me better in some small way. A beautiful life does not mean that you have to change everything you do in a day or that you have to go around like some fanatic seeing everything through rose colored glasses. It is about small changes and actions. <br /><br />I think it is important to start with oneself. We must get to know ourselves better, to know some important things. Things like what is really important to us, what truly makes us happy, what helps us relax, where we find solace and peace in our daily lives, how we smile, where we laugh. If you really start to listen to yourself you may be surprised. So often in life we let society project what it deems important on our characters and eventually we hardly know ourselves, unique is just a word. Just for a minute try to block the "marketing" out. Feel who you are inside. Practice. Try to see situations with your own clear eyes. See yourself. Know. <br /><br />Often when we strip away the "marketing" we find that we are a much simpler person. A person with fewer actual needs, deeper desires, imagination, passion, energy - A Spark! Life can be so much more simple than we ever imagined before...if we let it. And yet complicated enough to be interesting. You may find challenges that excite you and rewards that you can't resist. Pursue the passion in your life. However simple it may be. Try each day to bring joy into your own life. Even if it is brief (it will grow!) <br /><br />Then something interesting could happen. When we learn, again, how to live a more beautiful life, it becomes contagious. You will rub off on those you meet everyday without even trying. And you might be surprised how joy can be returned. You know the saying about flies and honey...it might just be true! Don't get down when you encounter those people still living a less than beautiful life. They are still going to be out there. Just let it be. Life is so much simpler than they imagine and you know it. <br /><br />I hope to share ways that I live a beautiful life and maybe help others find inspiration to live a beautiful life of their own. If you are interested - read my blogs - if not that is okay too! Have a beautiful day! </span></span></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5506486366975698158.post-50276723318970126422009-08-24T09:35:00.000-06:002009-08-24T09:39:05.935-06:00Halloween Recap<div class="blogTimeStamp"> Thursday, November 01, 2007 </div> <table class="blog" width="100%" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td width="30"><img alt="" src="http://x.myspace.com/images/spacer.gif" width="30" border="0" height="1" /></td> <td> <!--- blog subject ---> <!--- blog body ---> <div id="pBlogBody_324387750" class="blogContent"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 153, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Halloween this year didn't go unnoticed! We carved pumpkins, made popcorn balls, decorated the door and drank hot cider!! (Not all on the same day of course but some were part of the festivities leading up to the actual day.) We even had a dozen tick-or-treaters!! </span><br /><br /><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 153, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">I dressed up for work Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday! It was fun - I mean how often do you have a legitimate excuse for wearing stipped tights to work? Monday I went semi-"gothic" with my burgundy velvet shirt, cameo earrings and black pants (cute for any day really!) Wednesday I wore a black dress with my black and white stipped tights. And on Halloween I went dressed in my 40's style red dress (although I am hoping to make vintage a part of my regular wardrobe!) </span><br /><br /><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 153, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">As part of our "preparation" for Halloween we watched half of the scary movies that have been made since the indroduction of the moving picture...it was so exhausting watching all of those flicks!! Actually, I was sort of disappointed with some of the classic scary flicks...quite frankly The Exorcist wasn't as scary as I expected and I found the plot lacking. And Poltergeist was entertaining but not scary. Oh well, maybe I find the idea of each plot subject more scary than the movies themselves. </span><br /><br /><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 153, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Anyway, Halloween was a good time this year - more to come next year. And watch out for when we have a house - some creepy parties are in order - so start preparing for some exciting costume parties!! Hope everyone else enjoyed All Hallows Eve as much as I did - I know my Mom did - she had the best Halloween walk set up in her driveway (you should have seen it - plus she was the coolest witch in the neighborhood!!) Yay for everyone who remembered to have fun this Halloween!</span></div></td></tr></tbody></table>Mrs. Merlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12670193872348278247noreply@blogger.com0